Saturday, April 24, 2010

Guys......?

Please, no rude comments. I am so insecure! And, I hate that myself. I'm a religious person, and I know I am God's creation, and I should be happy with what I got. I also have a very loving bf who thinks I am just the beautiful and sexy girl he has ever seen. But I cant accept that! I believe hes lying to me. I'm a junior in high school, and I see all the other girls, and I just wish I could look like them. I have 32B boobs, brown a little off past shoulder length brown hair, I have some hormonal problem, because I need eyebrows and lip waxed continually. I also dont throw myself all over guys. And guys like big boobs, long hair, and I don't dress showing skin either. Jeans, sneakers and a sweater, or t-shirt. I just feel so bad, I know your probably thinking i should grow up, but it really does hurt. I feel so low. I just wish I could have a guy look at me. And my bf deserves better I believe, a girl he can actually show off to his friends. I just wish I could look like those girls...





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10 minutes ago


Also, before we started going out....he use to be mr.shallow guy.


now he just says hes picky??


Im like...'if you were so insecure you just wouldnt be going out with me.'





8 minutes ago


scratch 'insecure' i meant shallow

Guys......?
I think you are being selfish. You have a boyfriend who says you look great. That should be enough. Let me tell you I am young too and used to have some issues with my looks. (not as bad as you though lol) Start reading your bible. I never used to read my bible consistently, until about 4 or 5 months ago and I couldn't even fit all the changes that have happen to me in a book. Read your bible starting with the New Testament and read it everyday. You don't have to read it for an hour or anything ever day, it is about what you get out of God's word everyday not how much you read. Just read it and apply it to your life. Pray also and be honest with God, remember He already knows, so your not hiding anything.


God Bless and I pray for you.
Reply:toooooooooo long
Reply:Yet another "make me feel better about myself" question








Geeze get over yourself...
Reply:I am a tree
Reply:What exactly are you asking?
Reply:You are perfect just as you are.





Having guys drool all over you may sound like fun, but, it's much better to have one guy who is crazy about you and that's what you have. If you continually tell your bf that his feelings for you are wrong, he'll eventually believe you.
Reply:Well, i know this sounds shallow, but put up a picture of yourself and i will tell you. But you sound cool anyways...be yourself and who cares what other ppl think?
Reply:You seem very insecure. This is usually caused by stress, in which case you should relax and take some time of and possibly cure your hormone problem, however, I believe that you have immersed yourself too much in the modern trends, which I personally believe are rediculous, in which case you should take some time away from your boyfriend and spend some time alone, maybe take a long hot bath (that what I do when I feel insecure).
Reply:He probably does like you, I got turned down by a guy who chose a girl who looked ugly in my eyes.


made me sooooooo mad!
Reply:ok. i think you are worrying over nothing. if he didnt like you he wouldnt be going out with you. if you think you need to change, start wearing skirts, and those abercrombie, hollister, blouse things instead of hoodies and shirts all the time.

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